Wedding Chapel a part of your Wedding Elopement Package?

A Wedding Chapel service may not be exactly an elopement, but can help simplify, yet keep your special day extremely special


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When we were just starting the whole wedding-planning process, my best friend said something that has stuck with me all these months: “I had always imagined that you’d get married barefoot on the beach somewhere.” I keep going back to that carefree image every time I feel like I just can’t handle the wedding-planning anxiety anymore.

That’s why I’ve started entertaining alternate wedding fantasies: Eloping on a beach somewhere far, far away with about 20 guests (there are so many great elopement packages that include flowers, an officiant, dinner, and more for a couple thousand bucks!). Having a meat-and-cheese buffet on my favorite vineyard in Long Island instead of a formal, sit-down dinner. A less-formal rooftop party at a small boutique hotel. No printed programs or menus, no three-course dinner, no logistical puzzle of assigned seating: When the Ojai Valley wedding of Jaclyn Johnson, the founder of the Create & Cultivate conference, crossed my desk, it very much crystallized everything I had wanted — friends, food, and fun on a ranch, vineyard, or beach; no extra decor. Sometimes, it feels really good to “research” these ideas on the internet to see what could have been.

Part of the reason I’ve been two-timing our original traditional wedding plans is that the formal, sit-down dinner might actually be going out of style. When most people imagine their dream wedding, the conventional image that pops into their head might be one with a perfectly designed tablescape with floral centerpieces, candles, and fine china.

Of course, alternative weddings have been breaking the formal-dinner rules for years. What seems new, in the past year or so, is that they have entered the mainstream. If blogs and magazines — plus watching friends’ weddings get progressively more casual since attending my first one at the age of 21 (there were updos and Disney-princess cake toppers) — are any evidence, it looks like they’re here to stay. And that’s probably a good thing, giving more options to those who want to break with tradition.


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